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19 Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not wanting to make her a public example, was minded to put her away secretly.
What a situation Joseph finds himself in. Engaged (betrothed) to Mary a young woman from Nazareth a town in which Joseph also lived. It was not a big city, yet it had a reputation as a wild town. It was sufficiently far enough away from Judea and Jerusalem, that it did not draw the attention of the priests and rulers. It was a town that had originally belong to the one of the 10 tribes of Israel that had been captured by Assyria.
Many of the people had a mixed religion in that it was made up of paganism and Judaism. Nazareth did have a synagogue and Jesus did stand up to read scripture in that synagogue during His ministry. (see Luke 4:16) Despite the reputation Nazareth had Matthew 1:19 says that Joseph was a just man.
The Greek word used means he was strict in his observance of the law. Yet what an example Joseph is. Being strict in the observance of the law yet toward Mary he shows mercy. Mary his betrothed who has become pregnant and Joseph knows it is not his baby.
Joseph could have made a very public scene and publically disgraced this poor woman by placing her on trial. Joseph determined to do what was right and quietly divorce her. Jewish law allowed for him to quietly divorce her by declaring she did not please him. This would have allowed Mary to slip away to another community and quietly have the baby without bringing further embarrassment upon herself.
You see, in the eyes of those around Mary would have been considered an adulteress. Being a sin against Joseph he could have publically disgraced Mary. But, Joseph tempered his sense of justice with mercy. (see Matthew 19:3, 8; Mark 10:4 for examples of divorce)
When Adam and Eve sinned, the pre-incarnate Christ could have publically done away with planet earth. Or, He could have divorced himself of planet earth and left it to its own devises. Yet, he tempered his sense of justice with mercy.
Romans 3:23 says. “For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” And Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus out Lord.” Yet Christ who knew no sin came down and took on the likeness of sinful man. Took sin and mankind’s sinful nature upon himself and suffered and died upon a tree that you and I may be shown Mercy. Mercy that we are not deserving.
Mary being with child out of wedlock broke the law. Joseph, being a just man sought to do what was right. He thought to keep her from further embarrassment and just divorce her, but while he thought of these things verse 20 says, “an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream.”
18 Now the birth of Jesus Chris was as follows: After His mother Mary was betrothed to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Spirit.
The novel War and Peace starts with, “It was the best of times, and it was the worst of times.” Perhaps these were some of the same thoughts running through the mind of both Joseph and Mary. For both, it was the best of times for they were betrothed. Yet the worst of times because Mary finds herself with Child.
Imagine for a moment being somewhere between the age of 13 and perhaps as old as 17. Most Jewish women during the time of Christ where betrothed by age 13 and married before their 16th birthday.
Now imagine being this age and being betrothed to a man that had previously been married. Not only had he been married, but there was children involved as well. (See Matthew 12:46, 47; 13:55; Mark 3:31, 32; Luke 8:19, 20; John 2:12; Acts 1:14; Jude 1; Galatians 1:19) And to make matters more complicated you are pregnant and it isn’t his baby.
The Bible gives us very few details concerning who Joseph is. As we have seen, he is of the lineage of David from the line of David’s son Solomon. God entrusted him to become Father to God’s own son.
Many of us that are fathers and mothers will remember brining home that first bundle of joy from the hospital. The realization of the awesome responsibility hits home the first time the baby begins to cry in the middle of the night. As precious and helpless as our children are when we bring them home from the hospital, and the awesome responsibility we feel, would the God of heaven allow two unproven people to become mother and father to the future king of Israel? Even as young as Mary was could God be taking a chance? No for God chose a man of experience to be the father of His Son, and God could see the integrity and teach ability of Mary’s heart.
God had told through the prophet Isaiah, “Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a Son, and shall call His name Immanuel.” Isaiah 7:14. Immanuel, God with us. Oh how sweet the promise. The time had come. The fullness of time had here